Why Rejection Can Be A Good Thing

I don’t know if it’s just me lately, but people have been a little off, and I’m sure some of the blockages I have faced were for my highest good. They say “rejection is God’s protection,” and I believe that so much is true. We want control over situations most of the time, forgetting that some of the things we want in our lives aren’t the best for us.

Have you ever thought back about a job you didn’t get an offer for or a relationship that went sour, but you ended up dodging a bullet and receiving something better? Yea, me too!

Examples:

1. You weren’t offered that corporate job because you’re supposed to start your own business, and a new job will delay your progress.

2. The relationship was toxic, and you deserve someone who will treat you with love and respect.

3. That friend betrayed you, and now you know that person doesn’t belong in your life anymore. More than likely, they would keep crossing you if you didn’t find out the truth.

Now, please take a moment and look at it from a different angle. You were protected, and now it’s time to take the alternative route.

Of course, rejection can be a significant setback and can negatively trigger our emotions and fears, but sometimes it’s our ego that gets upset. That one thing that we wanted so bad didn’t work out, and we can’t change the outcome, so we have to learn to accept what happened. It’s typically what we do from here that dictates what happens next. Hear me out.

If you sit in a “why me?” or an “I can’t believe this” energy, that’s what you will continue to attract in your life. Everything will start to come from a “victim” mindset instead of an optimistic one. A simple “what can I do differently next time?” and “what did I learn from this experience?” can completely change the trajectory. Not saying that it will be easy, but it’s a start in a positive direction.

“Should of, could of, would of’s” keeps the blindfold over our vision into seeing the future in a positive light, and holding on tightly to past issues or outcomes that didn’t work out blocks us from being open to new experiences and opportunities. More than likely, you deserve better, but you have to see it and believe it to pursue a change in course.

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